For couples who feel stuck -
and are ready to try something different.
Online, in English or German. From anywhere in the world.
You keep having the same argument
You argue about dishes, but it's really about feeling unsupported. You argue about plans, but it's really about feeling unheard. The surface issue is rarely the actual issue - and you both know it, even if you can't quite name what's underneath.
The cycle is exhausting. One of you escalates, the other withdraws. Or you both shut down. The fight ends but nothing is resolved - until the next time. And there's always a next time.
Understanding what's underneath the pattern is how you break it. Read more about how attachment patterns drive conflict cycles and what it takes to shift them.
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You feel more like roommates than partners
The conversations are purely logistical - schedules, finances, chores. You haven't really talked in weeks. Not a fight, just a quiet distance that's harder to name than a fight would be.
You share a life but somewhere along the way you stopped sharing yourselves. It happened gradually, almost without noticing. Now there's a distance that neither of you quite knows how to close.
Emotional disconnection is one of the most common things couples bring to counselling. It's also one of the most workable. Read more about how emotional intelligence shapes connection - and what you can actually do about it.
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Life abroad put everything on your relationship
When you moved abroad, you became each other's entire world - the social network, the sounding board, the source of comfort. That's a lot for any relationship to carry. When the pressure builds, cracks appear in places you didn't expect.
Maybe one of you adapted faster. Maybe one of you gave up a career to be here and is quietly struggling with that loss. Maybe you come from different cultures and the nuances - how you express emotion, how you handle conflict, what "normal" looks like in a relationship - create friction neither of you knows how to name.
You don't need to be in crisis to reach out. Feeling the strain is enough. I work with expat and international couples across 15+ countries, in English and German.
Book a free introWhat makes working with me different
Neither of you is the problem
The relationship is the client - not either person in it. I hold both perspectives simultaneously and I'm not here to prove who is right. The goal is understanding what's happening between you, not deciding who's to blame.
Evidence-based: Emotionally Focused Therapy
EFT is one of the most research-supported approaches for couples. It works by reaching the emotional layer beneath the conflict - the attachment needs that drive your patterns. Around 75% of couples show significant improvement with EFT.
Online, flexible, wherever you are
No commute, no logistics. Both partners join from wherever you are - the same room or different countries. Works for expat couples across time zones and for couples who simply can't find in-person slots that fit both schedules.
Getting started is simpler than you think
Book your free intro
25 minutes, both partners welcome. We get to know each other and you can ask anything that's on your mind.
We build your plan
Together we agree on what you want to work on, how often we meet, and whether individual sessions alongside couple sessions make sense.
Your first session
90 minutes. A space where both of you are heard - not judged, not compared.
Most couples wait too long
Research shows the average couple waits 6-10 years after problems first emerge before seeking help. Often it's not doubt that holds them back - it's uncertainty about what counselling actually involves, or worry about whether it will feel like taking sides.
I'm not the judge of your relationship. The goal is to understand what's happening between you - and to give you both the tools to change it or decide together that it is best to move on separately. If you're unsure whether it makes sense for your situation, the free intro is the right place to start. Read more about how couples counselling works →
My offers
Start with the free 25-minute intro - no commitment. Once you're ready, choose the format that fits you. All couple sessions are 90 minutes. The packages include individual sessions for each partner - these have proven valuable for deeper work. For individual-only pricing, see the Counselling page.
Try it out
1 × 90 minutes
- One couple session
- When you want to try before committing
- One month validity
Focused work
3 × 90 min + 2 × 50 min
- 3 couple + 2 individual sessions
- For focused work on a specific challenge
- Three months validity
- 24% saving compared to single sessions
Deep work
6 × 90 min + 2 × 50 min
- 6 couple + 2 individual sessions
- For sustained work and lasting change
- Six months validity
- 27% saving compared to single sessions
Member & certified
EFT community
Location Independent
BDP quality seal · online counselling
Centre for Excellence in EFT
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